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Is it reasonable to avoid seeing unvaccinated family members?

Note: Q&A will resume on Monday. Happy Veterans Day!

Question: Still struggling with family who refuse to vax….is it reasonable to avoid seeing them at all, even though I’ve been vaxxed and boostered?  I don’t want to be THAT person who innocently transmits covid to those who are so vulnerable.  

Answer: I can’t tell you what’s right or reasonable for you and your family.  But I can tell you that you are not alone in what you’re contemplating and experiencing. In fact, a recent Harris Poll Covid Tracker Survey found that “one-third (33%) of vaccinated Americans report cutting ties in some way with friends, family members, or acquaintances who remain unvaccinated.”  And the Harris Poll from September17-19 found that “half (50%) of vaccinated respondents are either “extremely” or “considerably” hesitant to spend the holidays with unvaccinated family members or friends.”  Reflecting on these findings, Harris Poll CEO John Gerzema said, “Our new data suggests the vaccine divide is not only reshaping relationships, but soon the holiday travel season… expect to see cancellations and rerouted plans as vaccinated Americans avoid their unvaccinated friends and family.”